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17 June 2008
Why Guys Marry Some Girls (And Not Others)
From Cosmopolitan / MSN:
"It happens all the time: A guy spends months, even years, in a long-term relationship with a girl he really digs. But after dropping the I-don't-see-myselfever- getting-married bomb, he suddenly turns around and ties the knot with a new chick. "
The characteristics of women men marry are:
i) She's Exciting and Always Evolving
"spontaneous and a little unpredictable, taking on new interests all the time, and revealing different facets of herselfBy never letting life get static, this woman busts the myth that being married means feeling humdrum. "She makes being with her an adventure, as if there's always a new idea or activity just around the bend."
"She's naturally driven to challenge herself by trying new things. That's the kind of girl you want to marry. If you aren't continually fascinated by each other, it won't last."
ii) She Really, Really Loves Sex
"it's not all about wowing a guy with pretzel-like positions; a big part of having amazing booty is paying close attention to his mind-set and moods during the deed so sex reaches a higher, almost spiritual level."
iii) She Makes It Clear He's Not Her Entire Life
" It's flattering to a guy to realize that his girl thinks the world of him, but it's less appealing when he gets the impression that he is her world"
"A woman who depends on a man for her sense of fulfillment is a scary thing for a guy," says Gratch. "Men don't want to feel smothered or totally responsible for their partner's day-to-day happiness."
iv) ...Yet She Still Conveys How Very Important He Is to Her
v) She Wants Him to Be the Best Man He Can Be
"I wasn't on speaking terms with my father for years, and when I told my girlfriend this and that I just didn't care about having a relationship with him anymore, she didn't nod sympathetically. She made me call him and work things out because she knew I'd eventually regret it if I didn't. "
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